It is hoped that this book will provide a roadmap to understand the sudden and life-changing event that occur when a spouse or a child dies. Often this is unexpected and soul wrenching. When such occurs, what of the dead? What is our association to them? Is there to be a continuance and if so, how does this kind of a relationship developed and how do we access the libraries of heaven in pursuit of such a relationship? It is hoped this book will be an escort to those who have lost loved ones. Science has improved our understanding, but science is so clinical. This book should seek answers beyond science to a realm long understood by philosophers, poets, musicians and prophets; a world of transcendental truth where "the balm of Gilead" can be found and understanding of these events can be uncovered. Written from the perspective of a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.